I was always told, "Never pursue a man. If a guy is interested in you, he'll let you know." So I never have and I didn't suffer from not being 'asked out' or approached by men. I've never made the first move, never made the first phone call, never paid for a meal, and never 'gone dutch' on a date (in my single days). It worked out for me. And I plan to to teach my girls the same thing I was taught.So tell me, am I just Old School? Have the times changed that much? The way I see it, men & women are pretty much the same as they've always been and some things never change.
Let me know what you think.
I don't consider myself Old School or New School. Just me. LOL I have always done the asking out. Seems like when ever I get asked out..... He is not my type. But I still go out to see if there is more than the first impression to change my mind.... Nope!
ReplyDeleteI still get approached, asked out....etc. I am a firm believer of if you want something.... go for it. I have taught my kids the same thing. Have I made the first phone call.... sometimes but not always. Have I paid for a meal.... on occasion. Have I gone dutch..... only with friends!
Have it worked..... Yes and No. Yes - I have had several great relationships. Plenty of great memories. No - Plenty of failed relationships. And never married.
Will I change a thing.....NOPE! Somethings are not for everyone and to each their own!