Aqua C. Nixon

Aqua C. Nixon

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

"Miss Lady"

I know you're wondering what this post is all about.  Well, I'm glad you asked & feel free to share this one with a girl or a mom who may need to read it.   That's the way guys used to try to get your attention.  "Hey, hey, Miss Lady... let me talk to you for a minute."  Do they still say that? Okay, let's get back to the topic.

I see so many young girls (under 18) wearing extremely tight or 'barely there' clothing. Many of them are, let's say 'not a perfect size 6' and their flesh is spilling out over the top of their blouse & out of their jeans.  But they just wiggle & jiggle around with a wide grin on their face.  They have no idea how they really look and the reason they're smiling is because they get a lot of attention from young guys, grown men & basically everyone.  They don't know that it's not because they're so cute; it's because they are serving it up on a platter. Where are their mothers? I wish they knew that they don't have to do anything extra to get noticed by the right type of guy.

Some girls do know exactly what they're doing. But here's something every girl may not understand: men really don't discriminate when it comes to bare skin. They don't care what your face looks like, they don't care what's inside your head. If you're showing flesh, they're looking. And a lot of them will make a move. And why not? You're inviting the attention you get. It's just that some girls don't recognize inappropriate attention.

There are a few who get angry when a guy says something indecent. But listen, Miss Lady, if you're not that kind of girl... then cover yourself up.  I heard an older minister say, "If you're not selling anything, you ought not to be advertising it."

[stepping down from my soap box] I had to get that off my chest. You may return to your regularly scheduled activities.